A letter to my postpartum self

Dear postpartum body of mine, Most of the time, I start letters with something like, "You know, it's been awhile since we talked ..." Except that would be a lie. I talk to you all

The Domino

 Some people have said that we are resilient. That we have persisted, and held on to hope. The truth is ... Last year at this time I was ready to call it quits. I asked

I don’t do mom’s groups

This morning was mom's group.  It's my mid-week sanctuary. A little splice of time I which I need to contribute nothing to anyone --- just soak in sweet  coversation with my friends, escape from parenting

If this is what it means to be great — you can have it back

Dear baby,  You are sleeping here, peacefully in my arms.  I look at you, and I know how precious you are. That's what we mamas do best right? We see the value in our children,

5 things you should never to say to a woman whose baby has died

Tonight, I went to our local chapter of M.E.N.D -- a pregnancy loss support meeting. And you know what? People are saying the same old ignorant, hurtful things to women having a pregnancy loss as

What love does when you’re afraid

This post was written back in May ... But as I was sorting through my draft file, I found this little gem, and realized I'm working through all of this love/fear/faith stuff now more than

Giving birth to Eleanor Grace

Ok friends ... A few things to note before you dive in: - Grab a cup of coffee (or tea, whatever's your thing), and get cozy. I plan to be verbose in this post, and

I am 1 in 4

I am your friend. Your coworker. Your barista. Your accountant. Your personal trainer.   You see me at the grocery store with my kids. My baby swaddled up to my chest, my two older kids hanging off

My victory cry

This morning as I made pancakes, I put on a show I never thought I would watch. A show called One Born Every Minute. It’s a “documentary” showcasing 2-3 couples during labor & delivery. Not

The gift worth opening

One of my favorite parts about Christmas is wrapping presents.  It's not so much what is inside --- although I often love that too.  It is the ability to choose a beautiful textured, graphic printed

Get my new e-book — Living Through Loss: 7 Ways to Survive & Thrive

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I don’t have time for cellulite

  This past Christmas, Ryan and I decided we and our kids really had enough stuff. What we wanted was experiences, and time together. And so instead of getting each other or the kids gifts

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